BMW statement on airbag recalls

I used the mini dealer closest to my residence during its warranty period. I had repeated disappointment in their service and i was not surprised when i carried my s in for the ongoing (before it was out of its 50k warranty) heated seat problem (still unresolved- never fixed at all) and the more recent problem with my airbags. They told me told me that the reason the red and yellow airbag warning lights were on was because of the bad oc-3 mat which was not covered by the extended waranty BMW was offering.

The service representatives were always polite but their service was never adequate. They word their service reports as if they did some service.

The next closest dealer is nearly 200 miles, the one I was going to is 150 miles. BMW has awarded them with a franchise in my county so there still will not be a credible dealer anywhere close.

The dealer stated the oc-3 sensor would cost $1100. I was told it was perfectly safe to drive as it was (the dash would just looks like a Christmas tree). Since I did not have any confidence in anything they said to date, I certainly would not spend good money with them.

I purchased some 2003 seats on ebay and have found out to my chagrin that the airbag system is different. My fault for not doing the research. Now it seems the dealer might have given me incorrect information again. They stated they have alot of customers with this defect and they are safe. On the basis of the above, having both lights on is not safe.

Is there anything that can be done without more expense? BMW was always a great car and their dealers were excellent. I have nothing but praise for the local BMW dealer after four BMWs. I have no idea why they chose a dealer that will do nothing but sully their reputation.